the inner chambers

Community Guidelines

Welcome, sister. This space was built with intention — a place to grow, rest, study, and become more of who you were created to be. These guidelines exist not to restrict you, but to protect the sacredness of what we’re building together. 

Our Heart for This Space 

This is a community rooted in honoring how YHWH designed the feminine body, mind, and spirit — living in rhythm with our cycles, our seasons, and the Sabbath, and growing deeper in the Word together. We believe design isn’t accidental. Every guideline below flows from that belief. 

Like Esther, who spent her season in the inner chambers being prepared, set apart, and made ready before she ever stepped into her calling, this group — The Inner Chambers — is a place of preparation. A place to be quieted, refined, and strengthened before we’re called to step out and be seen. What happens in these chambers is sacred, unhurried, and covered. 

We are here to celebrate the wins and grieve the losses together. We are here to build one another up and to be the support so many women are lacking elsewhere. This is a family that shows up for each other — in joy and in sorrow. 

How We Show Up for One Another 

• Come as you are, in whatever season you’re in. Some weeks you’ll have energy to show up fully; other weeks you’ll need to rest and receive. Both are welcome here. This group honors cycles — literal and seasonal — so there’s no pressure to perform. 
• Confidentiality is sacred. What’s shared in this group stays in this group. Screenshots, names, or stories are never to be shared outside this space without permission. Trust is the foundation everything else is built on. 

Being part of this group is a privilege, not a right. A breach of this trust — sharing what happens here outside this space — will result in automatic removal on the first offense. Consider this your warning. No refunds will be given if this trust is broken. 

Many women in this group have walked through extremely challenging seasons and are here to rest. Rest is what we are called to give one another, as our Messiah gave to us — and that includes never causing harm physically, mentally, spiritually, or emotionally. 

“Why should ye be stricken any more? ye will revolt more and more: the whole head is sick, and the whole heart faint. From the sole of the foot even unto the head there is no soundness in it; but wounds, and bruises, and putrefying sores: they have not been closed, neither bound up, neither mollified with ointment.” — Isaiah 1:5-6 

This group exists to be a place where those wounds are finally closed, bound up, and cared for — not left open and unattended. We take that responsibility seriously. 

If you need to discuss a matter of safety, or something that is a legal matter, please bring it to a leader privately rather than in the open group. 

This group was made to give women a place to be fully seen, heard, and valued. 

• Speak with honor, always. Disagreement is human. Contempt is not welcome. We can wrestle with scripture, ideas, and each other’s perspectives without tearing one another down. 

It’s important to refrain from sharing opinions on situations you haven’t personally walked through. It’s often better to let those who have actually lived through a circumstance speak into it, with the compassion that comes from experience. 

Using emojis to soften your tone is helpful — offenses can easily arise when sensitive topics come up, and a picture can carry the warmth that words alone sometimes miss.

• This is a no-shame zone. Around food, bodies, cycles, faith questions, doubts, or struggles — no shame. Ever. If you’re navigating something hard, this is a place to bring it, not hide it. 
• Women will not be labeled here. Women are so often accused of being “Jezebels” or “contentious” simply for having a voice, an opinion, or a boundary. That language will not be spoken over women in this group. You are safe to be strong, to be soft, to disagree, and to speak without fear of being labeled for it. 
• Scripture is engaged with reverence, not argued over for sport. Questions are welcome. Genuine study is welcome. Debate for the sake of winning is not what this space is for. Deeper scripture discussion is best brought to our Friday live call, where we can study together in real time. 

If a scripture is given as encouragement and spiritual food, may your words always be seasoned with salt. If a topic is touched on, please do not exceed a two-response limit to cover one topic in a disagreement. It is of the utmost importance that we always remember that being confident in what we believe should remain in that confidence — one does not need to persuade or change another in this group. YHWH is the creator of the seeing eye and the hearing ear. We are all just planting seeds, and sometimes we may not see the harvest in our interactions — this does not mean the work was fruitless. 

• Some topics are better held for live conversation than open group discussion. Please avoid open discussions in the group around topics that can be painful or easily misconstrued in text — such as submission, or language that has historically been weaponized against women. These conversations deserve the tone, context, and care that only a live discussion can offer. 
• Encourage before you correct. If you feel led to offer a different perspective, do it gently and privately when possible. Build up before you challenge. 
• No selling, recruiting, or promoting outside offers. This space is for connection and growth, not for pitching your own business, MLM, or program unless explicitly invited to do so. 
• Protect the Sabbath rhythm of this space. Just as we prepare for Shabbat with intention, we ask that you engage with this group the same way — present, unhurried, and without pressure to be “on” all the time. 

Focused on Growth, Not Correction 

This group is for the encouragement and cheering on of women who are serious about learning — it is not a place for educating or correcting one another. Please keep the conversation focused on celebrating one another and on questions that pertain to your own growth and your own walk. 

Yahshua was clear that we are to deal with the log in our own eye before turning our attention to the speck in someone else’s. This space is for you to focus on your own log, your own growth, your own walk with YHWH — not to instruct, correct, or educate the women around you. 

If something shared here offends you, please follow the pattern given in Matthew 18 and go to that person privately. We do not promote or approve of correction happening openly in this group. 

Discipline and correction are a masculine design assignment, not the purpose of this space. Here, we are putting off the grave clothes and running our race properly clothed — not in mixed garments. This group exists for growth, not governance. 

“The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman’s garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the LORD thy God.” — Deuteronomy 22:5 

We honor the design we were given rather than stepping into assignments that were never ours to carry. Different roles do not mean different worth — we view women as equally important and equally valued in the roles we were created to carry. 

When Guidelines Aren’t Honored 

We believe in grace first. If something is shared that doesn’t align with the heart of this space, you’ll be reached out to personally before any other action is taken. This is a family, not a courtroom — but we will protect the sanctity of this space when needed. The one exception is a breach of confidentiality, as outlined above, which results in automatic removal to protect the trust of everyone

in this group. 

“Take away the wicked from before the king, and his throne shall be established in righteousness.” — Proverbs 25:5 

We take this seriously because protecting what is righteous in this space is what allows it to remain steady for everyone who calls it home. 

You were designed with intention. This space was too. Thank you for being here.